Our Society and Self Love



''Self love is the state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth''


Since the beginning of time, we have been instructed to love, support and be pillars for each other. Although these acts are vital for a harmonious society, I wonder why people thought it was necessary to be self sacrificial. We are not really taught to love ourselves despite all our drawbacks, grievances and frustrations. 

How can one be empathetic and supportive towards others when the person has no emotional bond with themselves? How can one reciprocate the feelings of another individual when he has no sense of self worth?
All these questions are mind boggling and strenuous to say the least. I would also like to state that the process of self love is not simple and effortless. It takes time and several relapses. However, the journey is worth it despite being mentally excruciating. In the day and age of digital media, we are surrounded by superficial beauty standards and unrealistic lifestyles which gaslight us into assuming we are inferior. Ask yourself this question, do you really think that social media is a reality? Are all those smiles actually real or are they just a façade?
Self love also comes with self awareness. One should recognize where he/she lacks or others areas which require improvement. Self love is not making excuses for one's weaknesses rather its striving to be the best version of yourself you can be. 

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